You might be married to the best of men, like Prophet of God, and still not enter Heaven -like the wife of Nabi Lut a.s.
You might be not married to any man, like Maryam (alaiha salam), and Allah can make your rank higher than any women on the Earth.
Know your priorities. Love and trust is with Allah first.
Kerana Baginnya Allah yang utama..=)